Monday 19 January 2015

How do you know when it is the right time to have another baby after a loss.

How long should you leave it before trying to conceive again.

This is a question I have heard a lot. 

The physical signs are pretty easy to detect. 

A woman can have check ups to make sure that her body is back to its pre pregnancy state. 

This will then tell her that her body is ready to carry another pregnancy.

There is also the obvious signs as in regular menstruation cycle again. 

However when is the right time emotionally to try for another baby.

There is no right time. 

Every couple has to decide themselves when they are feeling ready to try again.

After the loss of a baby this can be a very difficult decision to make.

Many people will be scared to try again for fear of the same thing happening again.

Unless there is a genetic or physical cause for the loss then there is no increased risk of the same thing happening, however knowing this will not make the decision any easier.

If there was a cause detected then the lady will be monitored very closely to try and prevent the same outcome happening if possible.

There is also genetic testing that can take place during any new pregnancy to check for any abnormalities or difficulties that could be encountered.

The biggest hurdle any couple will face is the day to day anxiety caused by any future pregnancies. 

At every stage they will be worrying, wondering if everything is going ok.

People will offer reassurances but these will fall on deaf ears as the couple have already had one traumatic event and in their minds it can happen again.

Despite all reassurances and regular medical checks the couple will not be able to relax until their baby is safely in their arms.

I cannot imagine how difficult it must be to make that decision to try again.

The couple have to be very strong and brave, and over a 9 month pregnancy this must be exhausting. 

This can take a toll on both of them and can cause tension in any relationship. 

The support from their families is so important during this time and will make a big difference. 


We would love to hear from our supporters on how long they left it to have another child. What things helped them make the decision that the time was right.

Sharing your stories with us can be a great support to other families about to embark on a new pregnancy.










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